Navigating Men is a Skill...

Is Navigating MEN a skill? Yes. It is also an experience I call "managing enticing networks." Men are an intriguing and delicious species that we refer to for companionship, sex, provider, protector, and most often, a possession. There are rules to engaging these creatures that include taming the predatory and reproductive nature of the beasts within them. By design, they are created to draw us to them; thier prowess and strength. To quinch our physical hunger; a longing stirred by pheromones and a desire to connect physically and emotionally and to build a space of more opportunities to settled into a monogomus status where a relationship exists. The challenge is, being the carrier of multiple seeds (sperm) to ensure successful procreation (offspring) and the creation of ideas; men are often driven by thier base nature to conquer many and spread thier seed. Both offspring and ideas must be inubated in you as a woman, to bring them forth into the world. It takes a specially equipped woman to navigate men. We can help men to channel these potent seeds into anything we can imagine.... when WE know why and what WE are doing.

Whatever type of seed that is planted in someway reflects the seed carrier. To be clear, when you engage in sexual intercourse with a man, whether it is love or lust, you are inviting into your womb-niverse the elements and the essence of that man. As a result we are initiating the creation process and cultivating it in the world. Ideas and offspring can not be birthed if it doesn't come through us. The seeding of ideas and offspring only survive because as the vessel and portal we manifest them. So who is ultimately responsible for what is birthed in our world? Women.

As women, we appeal to a mass network of men, only to find an automatic scaling process to take place. A practice through the process of elimination scales down the network to a pool of likely 5 specimen that provide 5 of the essential traits that meet many women's immediate social, emotional and physical needs. The 5 key traits include 1) physical/sexual attraction, 2) financial viability, 3) sense of humor/engaging 4) companionship/shared interests, and 5) family/community oriented. These are typically among the top 10 essentials for most women (not mentioned above spiritual beliefs, personal values; confidence, notoriety and thier romantic nature). While our WHOLE list is important, we often hone in on a few of the top essentials that give us time to decide if we can cultivate a specimen into those other aspects that are not readily visible or accessible.

When our lens is not fully developed or clear, we tend to make decisions based on our emotions of loneliness, physical attraction, and/or our desire to birth something procreate/create to which we have ownership and/or possession. Without a clear lens and some essential tools and skills, we can misjudge the value of the experiences that we are having and/or the person we are having the experience with. These are the navigation tools, women need and we tend to leant through painful experience instead of skillful and steady guidance. At its core, the ability to "navigating men" is rooted in the "Feminine Arts of Empowerment" a skillset that every woman should have. Come cultivate your skillset with me, Heather Hetheru, and let's change our relationships now and in the future for the better!